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Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between
A cheeky yet authoritative guide to anal health and anal sex, written by the leading anal health expert in the United States.
More people than ever are receptive to the pleasures of anal, but compassionate, medically comprehensive information can be challenging to come by. No more!
Whether you’re a top or a bottom, gay or straight, experienced or just getting ready to stretch your, um, imagination—Butt Seriously gives you the medically accurate, scientifically-backed information you need to keep your peach ready to take you to the height of sexual bliss.
This first-of-a-kind guide will teach you how to keep your anus healthy, maximize your pleasure, and bust the myths holding us back around anal sex. Among other takeaways, Butt Seriously will:
Offer comprehensive, medically-accurate sex-ed for anyone who engages, regardless of gender and sexual identity
Reveal why a prostate orgasm is the best orgasm
Show women how butt play allows access to their other erogenous spot (the A-zone)
Recommend the best techniques, toys, lubes, and other products
Teach readers how to poop, sit, eat, exercise to support their pelvic floor and heal common challenges such as hemorrhoids and fissures.
Refreshingly inclusive and sex-positive, Butt Seriously is the backdoor bible for anyone looking to uplevel their sex life.
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WHAT THE ASS-PERTS ARE SAYING
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“Anal sex is hard to talk about — even people who enjoy it sometimes feel uncomfortable around the topic. Dr. Goldstein’s affirming, approachable, and deeply informed user-friendly advice is the best thing to happen to anal sex since lube was invented. I can’t recommend this book highly enough.”
Dan Savage, author of Savage Love and host of Savage Lovecast.
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"If you want to learn about anal play, sex and pleasure, Butt Seriously is everything you ever wanted. Dr. Evan Goldstein has now written the definitive guide on how to prepare for anal, what to do if things go wrong, and my favorite…anal myths we can now let go of! Informed by research but written with wit and warmth, this is the book I’ll now be recommending to anyone ready to make anal pleasure a part of their life."
Emily Morse, host of the Sex with Emily Podcast, Doctor of Human Sexuality, and author of Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.
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"No but(t)s about it, Evan Goldstein has written a definitive, personable and sorely needed guide to all-things anal!"
Ian Kerner, PhD LMFT, NY Times best-selling author of She Comes First.
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"Butt Seriously brings both lightness and depth to an often-taboo topic. A nonjudgmental and incredibly informative read, this book is perfect for anyone who wants to get their peach in top working order to experience and give pleasure with more ease."
Rae McDaniel, Certified Sex Therapist, author of Gender Magic.
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“Butt Seriously is a serious book about butts. Goldstein offers a comprehensive and accessible guide to the ins and outs of anal play. Shining a light on topics that are almost completely neglected in traditional sex ed, this books empowers readers with the knowledge they need to take control of their sexual health and pleasure from the bottom up.”
Justin J. Lehmiller, Ph.D., Host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast and author of Tell Me What You Want.
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"If you Google 'anal sex tips,' you'll see dozens of articles with the same three recommendations: breathe, use lots of lube, and go slowly...but that's it. When you start having anal sex, you'll have about a hundred more questions on preparation, dilation, aftercare, enhancing pleasure, etc. And you won't be able to find those answers anywhere online. Unless you specifically see a gay sexual health doctor, odds are, your healthcare provider won't have answers either. Butt Seriously answers every single damn question you could have about anal play. It is by far the most thorough manual on anal sex, and Dr. Goldstein approaches the topic in the most sex-positive, shame-free manner that encourages everyone to explore the wonders of their backdoor."
Anal aficionado Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto.
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"Written by a renowned expert and anal sex guru, this is the only book you need for information that’s accurate, but also sex positive. Anal health is an important part of sexual health, but more importantly a huge part of sexual expression. Avoiding anal is avoiding pleasure- this book dispels myths, discusses important anatomy, and how to fix problems to reduce butt anxiety and build more sexual confidence. "
Chris Donaghue, PhD, LCSW, CST
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"Finally, a complete guide to one of our most important body parts."
Nichole Klatt, PhD. Professor and Division Chief of Surgical Outcomes and Precision Medicine Research; University of Minnesota Department of Surgery
About the Author
Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area and Crain’s New York Business listed him as one of their notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives. He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.
Bespoke Surgical
Bespoke Surgical is a private proctological and anal plastic surgery practice based in New York City. Its procedures primarily focus on the health, cosmetics, and comfort of today’s modern gay male, but it caters to people of all genders and sexualities.
Bespoke Surgical is based on the foundation of sexual wellness and its associated pillars: prevention, restoration, & reconstruction. Other wellness advocates navigate their clients through primary sexual health, while proctologist & anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein and his other anal specialists focus on the evolution of their patients in New York City and beyond.
Future Method
Future Method develops science-backed products and doctor-led education to maximize pleasure, prioritize safety and comfort, and empower the way people choose to play.
Their comprehensive product range aims to make anal health more than an afterthought by eliminating stigma, prioritizing comfort, safety, and pleasure for all bodies. Introducing a daily routine that connects sexual health and whole-body health.